jenaloucarv's Journal, 15 Aug 18

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Ignore petty people like that you've just described my mother in one paragraph 😂 unfortunately they may never accept you however learn to be what makes you happy and a good opinion of yourself that's what counts 👍  

I did feel real happy up until then, now I'm thinking I'm looking bad. I don't understand people sometimes, I wouldn't go up to my 'mate' and say oh that mole on your cheek has gotten bigger coz I wouldn't want to upset her in anyway. I'll get over it when I've lose another 1lb this week.lol.x 

I known it's easy said but don't listen to them. Listen to your body and how you feel. 

👍🏼 x 

Human nature I'm afraid. It's that topic or the weather 

You’ll always get people telling how bad you look it’s normally because there lacking in their own self confidence so when you do something about it they feel insure so they want to stop looking better, as for your mum well she probably just doesn’t want to she her little girl growing up because she always wants her to be her little girl 😉 

That should have said see lol 

Awww bless you Paul, jen I used to get down about these things it's not worth it because while your upset and stressing trust me they're losing no sleep over it my dear! Sorry to put it so blunt but they are not.. Do what makes YOU happy and the next time someone acts or says something like that look at their flaws and think well at least you've come to terms with yours & dealing with them rather than attacking other people's insecurities, I agree with Paul 100% when people do this there's usually 1000 things their paranoid about but offensive behaviour seems to be a defence mechanism for lots unfortunately... Like children getting told off some accept it others try to say "well they did this..." gets attention off them (they hope) Don't let it get you down honey carry on buy a new top and then flaunt it 😉 x 

---rant over 😂 - - -