Way to go, Good job! I am sure your boyfriend is telling you the truth because my hubby is the same way. Also, people who are around you all the time actually don't notice how big you are. My brother was almost 400 lbs and when he got the gastric bypass he came down to 220. He showed me his before pic and I flipped LOL! It never occured to me how big he really was until all that weight was gone.