Mal321's Journal, 03 Dec 17

Me and my husband have decided to go through IVF again and I`m going to put my weight loss on hold for now (and after treatment another 9 months). I`ll try to live healthy and I think 1550-1700 calories per day will be appropriate.
I`ve been trying to get pregnant through my all 14 years of marriage and still no baby so I just have to keep trying. It is so painful when a woman cannot fulfil herself as a mother, trust me it is really painful. If IVF doesn’t work again then I`ll try to adopt but I really hope I`ll get pregnant this time. I`m really excited to go through this again but nervous at the same time in case of failure.
Of course I`ll stay on this website all the time because I love you my gorgeous people too much! You have always been supportive and encouraging to me and I really want to keep in touch with you.

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Mal, wishing you and your hubby all the best with this important decision. 
03 Dec 17 by member: chesgreen
Thank you Chesgreen, I hope it will work this time! 
03 Dec 17 by member: Mal321
I'm praying that things go your way... 
03 Dec 17 by member: John10251
Sending positive vibes and thoughts your way, I wish both of you the best of luck! And will be here when you are ready :) 
03 Dec 17 by member: cherik1
John and Cherik, I`ll need positive vibes and prayers! At the previous IVF process I was getting pregnant but I was loosing it every time I was getting pregnant. On the 12th this month I`m seeing the same doctor who was looking after my previous 3 embryo transfers so I`m at the early process but will definitely need prayers. All Best. 
03 Dec 17 by member: Mal321
mal321 just reading this made me so emotional. You must be a very robust person (and your partner) to be able to do this. Best of everything for you both. 
03 Dec 17 by member: Ahermi
Fingers crossed. Big hugs 💟💟 
03 Dec 17 by member: fluffy pink
Ahermi, I cry so often and I don't even know what to do anymore sometimes. Failing at this part of our duty as a women is really hard for me, knowing I can not have what every woman can. Anyway, there is plenty of gorgeous kids to adopt, so lets wait, next step (if IVF doesn't work) will be adoption. Oh.. you make me emotional now! 
03 Dec 17 by member: Mal321
Hope you'll be putting a bit of weight ON for nice reasons 👍 x 
03 Dec 17 by member: jimsterman
Sending much love and baby vibes your way! I’m so sorry you hurt. I study and collect healing stones, there are some that claim to increase fertility and healthy pregnancies. And if nothing else at least you will have a beautiful little set of stones 😉 rose quartz, moonstone, unakite, jade, carnelian and garnet are the most commonly talked about for fertility. Also I’m sure you have already searched and searched again for natural ways to increase chances, but red raspberry leaf tea is a great uterine cleanser and toner. Also stinging nettle and red clover are supposed to help. Seriously, best of wishes to you and if you ever want to talk just let me know. 
03 Dec 17 by member: mamamc7
Hi Mal Please try not to think of it as of "fulfilling woman's duty" and more of as a gift! This comes from experience, and not just mine... take care and good luck!! xx 
03 Dec 17 by member: tvoronina
Check out Kelly Hogan's story https://youtu.be/1a6wY_HCjYU 
03 Dec 17 by member: rnazon
Tvoronina, why I can`t have what other women can, that`s the most painful part. Thank you for the luck, I`ll really need this! This time I`ll be using few fresh embryos in one go so I hope it will work this time.  
03 Dec 17 by member: Mal321
Mamamc7, i`ve heard about the stones having positive effect on your body and mind. Thanks for giving me the list of them, I`m going to check and purchase. I`ll carry them with me, my mother said stones work so I`ll give it a go (she gave me one before). 
03 Dec 17 by member: Mal321
Fingers crossed for you x 
03 Dec 17 by member: Tracey2211
Jimsterman, I`m ready to be larger again as long as you give me a baby. Tracy, thank you I`ll need prayers!  
03 Dec 17 by member: Mal321
I recommend buying some beads too and make yourself a pretty necklace. Do you have a place to go bead shopping where you are? If not amazon has them! String them on a silk thread, no synthetic string. If you ever have questions, let me know. But also carrying them helps. Also reduces stress to rub them and focus, meditate... all great for the body! 
03 Dec 17 by member: mamamc7
May God Bless You Sis 
03 Dec 17 by member: Retta Smith
Chin up, @Mal321 - we're all cheering for you and "a little one". 
03 Dec 17 by member: From371to184
What can I say that hasn't already been said? I wish you both all the luck (and good science) in the world. Keep in touch and let us know how all of you are doing. 
03 Dec 17 by member: kossoff

     
 

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