i live in england,25yrs old, 3 children married for 9 years, have been up and down in weight since forever, as a child (5-6) i had to have weight gain milkshake stuff, as a teenager i lived on diet pills and throwing up! since my first child i have been my heaviest sometimes reaching 82kg. my husband was always bigger than me 117kg but has now lost weight. I REALLY REALLY DONT WANT TO BE BIGGER THAN HIM!