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Thanks all! I get what you mean by including him, only problem is he wants noting to do with it. Hes the type to not ever gain weight. Hes about 136 lbs and will never know whaty it is like to be overweight. He is also the type to eat alot of fried foods or pasta everyday. I'am getting use to making 2 meals, I just wish he would support me about this and not put me down. :*0(
About 3 months ago I cut out all soda, I'm sorry in the last 3 months I have had 1 Kids size Coke. But other then that I have cut it out all together, I just found out before I started this that in the last month I have lost 14 lbs. Before that I droped 10 lbs in 2 months. My pont is that tonght I made up my mind that I was not going to eat any more pasta, or white bread. Tonight was my last meal of Baked Ziti, and OMG, I cant believe the calories that where in it. So far that is my own person challeenge. So far I think I have done good with pop, Now I move on to pasta. Well, I hope everyone s doing well. And anyone feel free to write me anytime. Goodnight!
View Diet Calendar, 02 September 2008:
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1441 kcal
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Fat: 55.15g | Prot: 43.03g | Carbs: 187.46g.
Breakfast: water, butter, pancake. Lunch: water, homemade potato salad, wonderbar bologna, Whole wheat bread. Dinner: water, garlic bread, cheese, sauce, pasta. Snacks/Other: water, ice pop. more...
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3814 kcal
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Exercise:
Walking (moderate) - 5/kph - 1 hour, Resting - 15 hours, Sleeping - 8 hours. more...
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He's probably feeling a little insecure because he knows how hot you're gonna look. =) Just keep reassuring him and making sure he understands how important it is for your health and the health of your little girl. A lot of people don't understand that it's so much more than looks. My husband is the same way, eats whatever he wants and doesn't gain a pound. I make two meals as well. He's 6'3" and right now probably weighs the same as me. But he supports me and wants me to succeed so I'm happy for that. It will be hard for you to keep it up without the support at home but know that you can always come to FS and get the support you need here....We are all on the same boat striving for the same destination....
02 Sep 08 by member: Dulce1984
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dito on the feeling of insecure! you can do this and don't let him keep you down. try South Beach. He can have his meat and poatoes and you can have your meat and veggies and you won't miss out on anything... better, yet... Weight Watchers... You can follow the program with out dishing out the money and the most important thing is portion control. Make what you would make him and alter it to fit your needs. You can do it!
02 Sep 08 by member: mrsjohnson0317
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Okay this may get me some dirty looks, but men or should I say husbands are easy to manipulate when it comes to food cause they really don't pay as much attention as we would like to think. He will never notice if you up the vegis and healthy grains and decrease the fat. You can eat a huge plate of food if its mostly vegis and he will never know the difference. The change in you will be gradual and by the time he realizes that you are following through, he will be so thrilled with the new you that he will begin to encourage you and be proud of you. He just needs to get over the initial insecurity and realize that your affection for him will just get better.
02 Sep 08 by member: bethru
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Men can be so frustrating. Mine is the same way. He says he wants to support me, but when I bake the chicken instead of frying it, he has a terrible attitude. Weight Watchers has stopped me from having to hurt him many times over. I can still make and eat the fried chicken. I just eat less than him. Once your significant other realizes that you are doing it with or without him, he'll get over himself and support you.
02 Sep 08 by member: AlexisY
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I agree, that, he sounds insecure. I think men are afraid that someone else will be looking at their wives once they get slim and healthy
02 Sep 08 by member: DLAndrews
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If he doesn't like you to be healthy kick his ass to the curb. :) Sorry, just my honest opinion!
02 Sep 08 by member: catglaw
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I don't know why you should have to trick him or convince him to support you to do something healthy.
As long as you don't make him feel guilty for eating whatever he wants, I say he shouldn't make you feel guilty for eating whatever you want!
02 Sep 08 by member: iced_tea
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I have been there except i was the one not supporting the wife for years as she battled and i was getting larger. She kept on loving me as i was eating myself to death. I finally got my head right and we support each other. sometimes i get mad when she gets on to me for eating something i shouldnt but i know she is doing it for my own good. stick with it you can do it
03 Sep 08 by member: Big Orr
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